• Basketball, Basketwife, Both Sides of the Pond, TheBoy

    Posted on October 20th, 2009

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    And he’s off!

    Kevin left this afternoon for Houston, and then he will take the LONG flight to Dubai where he’ll spend a couple of days waiting on his visa to be ready. I am a mix of emotions, which is about par for the course. I know he loves the game, and this is how he makes [...]

  • Basketwife, Both Sides of the Pond

    Posted on May 23rd, 2009

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    Twitter Weekly Updates for 2009-05-23

    Great time with friends. Now I’m kinda sleepy… #
    Wondering why twitter sometimes stops following people? Am I accidently doing something stupid? Sorry friends. Not sorry marketers. Night! #
    Kevin’s making oatmeal, and me… I might just shower! LOL! #
    Knock each other down or unite? http://tinyurl.com/qbfv6f #
    Getting the boy down for his nap and then on a [...]

  • Basketwife, Both Sides of the Pond

    Posted on May 18th, 2009

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    Being the Last to Know

    Back to some posts on being a basketball wife. I last wrote about Setbacks, but before I get too off-track, I wanted to write about what Dr. Ortiz calls being “the last to know: coping with life-changing events.”   In her comments, Erin indicated that she has been fortunate in that her husband has not [...]

  • Basketwife, Both Sides of the Pond

    Posted on April 21st, 2009

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    Dealing with Life Changing Events from both sides of the pond: Setbacks

    In part six, Erin discussed what Dr. Ortiz refers to as “life changing events: the last to know” and “setbacks.”  I am going to write about these separately, because I have a lot to say.
    First– setbacks.

    “Setbacks in professional sports may include injuries (i.e., severe or chronic), getting cut from the team, getting [...]

  • Basketwife, Both Sides of the Pond

    Posted on April 19th, 2009

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    Is Being “too tired” a Cop-out? My response Part III

    This is the final post in the cop-out series. I have already covered what I consider to be our first and second lifestyles.

    Kevin and me– living abroad, just the two of us.
    Kevin, me and The Boy– living abroad, just the three of us.
    Our current situation– Kevin abroad, me and The Boy in the U.S.

    Today I [...]

  • Basketwife, Both Sides of the Pond

    Posted on April 17th, 2009

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    Is Being “too tired” a Cop-out? My response Part II

    As I wrote yesterday, we went through three very distinct “lifestyles.”

    Kevin and me– living abroad, just the two of us.
    Kevin, me and The Boy– living abroad, just the three of us.
    Our current situation– Kevin abroad, me and The Boy in the U.S.

    Today I will address lifestyle two– the three of us abroad. I am not [...]

  • Basketwife, Both Sides of the Pond

    Posted on April 15th, 2009

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    Is Being “too tired” a cop-out? My response

    As I mentioned last week, fellow basketwife, Erin, is posting a series on being the wife of a professional athlete. In part three, I made a comment about being “too tired” is a cop-out in our family.  It has not always been this way.  I was going to wait to post about the articles/series until [...]

  • Basketwife, Both Sides of the Pond

    Posted on April 10th, 2009

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    A quote to share

    “Most fans, think that the player’s lives are glamorous, and that players, wives, and families do not have any problems that non-public families face; which is not true. In fact, we face more physical, emotional, financial, divorce, and stressful situations simultaneously that money can not solve than most people face in a lifetime.”
    – Gena [...]